Barbara Fontana, PhD - Psychologist & Imago Relationship Therapist
Home Page
Individual Therapy
Couples Therapy
About Me
Frequently Asked Questions
Tip of the Week
Links
Barbara Fontana, Ph.D
45 Route 25A
Shoreham, NY 11786
Ph: 631-821-1880
Fax: 631-821-4750
Email Tip of
the Week
Enter your email address to receive my tip of the week:
Privacy/Email List Info

Tips of the Week for Couples

  • We also bond emotionally when we are aroused.
Sharing an adventure with your partner/spouse will increase your arousal and your bond with each other.  Try something new together.
  • Sometimes our lives are so busy that we have very little time together.
Increasing the time you spend as a couple will increase your feelings of intimacy. You might cook dinner together or do a project at home or go for a walk.
  • Laughter is good medicine for our relationships.
When we share a laugh, we feel closer. Try to keep your sense of humor and share a laugh with your partner/spouse.
  • Do something new together.
It’s another way to feel closer to each other.
  • Forgive your partner/spouse.
Forgiveness helps the person who forgives as much as the person who is forgiven AND it strengthens your bond with each other.
  • According to many studies, an intimate relationship/marriage is the single most important source of life satisfaction.
Almost all relationships can be the source of deep satisfaction if both people are willing to do the work. It is important to remember that relationships take work; good and great relationships don’t just happen.
  • Thriving couples accentuate the positive in life.
Celebrate and focus on the happy moments.
  • Share good news and happy events with each other.
This is another way to strengthen your bond.
  • How you respond to good news your partner/spouse shares with you is important.
Try to respond enthusiastically, show that you care and that you understand why the news is viewed as good by your partner/spouse. This will demonstrate that you "get" your partner/spouse and increase relationship satisfaction.
  • Express gratitude for each other daily.
It will help you appreciate each other, strengthen your relationship, help you feel better about your relationship and more connected.
 
Barbara Fontana, Ph.D | 45 Route 25A | Shoreham, NY 11786 | Ph: 631-821-1880 | Fax: 631-821-4750